Dating update

I know that I promised to stay on track with this whole blogging thing. Sadly, I didn’t keep my promise. Life happens and sometimes I barely have time to check even facebook. I feel so out of the loop sometimes and it’s kind of sad that we now rely on social media to keep us informed on all of our friend’s happenings in life. Anyways…

For about 2 months now I have been seeing someone. I went through the period of dating 2 guys, feeling the situation out and seeing how it would all play out. I ended up choosing one who I really felt a connection with.
I think that the hardest part in this relationship thus far was telling him about the situation at hand (being young, single, and infertile). At the time of the TAH I wasn’t thinking about the someday of having to tell some guy the whole story.
When I began dating again, this was always in the back of my mind. I felt like I was keeping this big secret that needed to be told before I could fully allow someone inside to see the real me.
There really isn’t a perfect moment or point in a relationship to tell someone what I had to tell him. I knew that he had a love for children and wanted to someday be a father (that made the telling part that much harder). It didn’t go as planned and looking back there is so much I would have done differently, yet it is what it is, it’s done and over with.
I was surprised that he was really supportive and willing to give “us” a chance. He handled the situation at a more mature level than I thought he would have. I hope that this guy sticks around for a while. 1. Because I really don’t want to start over by telling someone new. 2. He is pretty darn special and I like him a lot. :)